Here’s 39 strange things about this paradoxical thing called life.
1. Our best solutions, creations, insights, and moments of genius rarely come from our minds. In fact, they don’t actually come from us at all. They come through us.
2. We live in the one place our minds seem to have the damndest time finding—the Here and Now. We spend the majority of our lives constantly consumed with our perception of the past and anticipating—in either a positive or negative way—an imaginary future.
3. More often than not the best things in life happen when our well-designed plans fall apart. But it’s still good to make plans.
4. The more we try to be liked and admired by others, the less they tend to like and admire us.
5. We search for anything and everything to make us a happy… be it money, a house, a car, a person, a job, a business, retirement, recognition, or a new pair of shoes… yet we rarely look to the one place it can actually be found—inside.
6. Trying to do something perfect, usually leads to not doing it at all.
7. While we want the good stuff in our lives to sit still and behave, it never does. Nothing is permanent. Everything is changing and fading. Meeting is the beginning of parting. Everything goes at some point.
8. The things that are the most popular—fads, bands, movies, TV shows, celebrities, books—usually have the least depth, authenticity, artistic genius, and heart.
9. We have an inherent need to try to control. Yet when we do we block the flow of life and end up stressing out like a coked-out soccer mom.
10. The most painful, hardest, gut-wrenching things we go through in life are usually our best opportunities to grow and become happier.
11. The more we resist something and try to push it away, the more of it we pull into our lives.
12. We know that worrying never makes anything better… yet many of us still do it every chance we get.
13. The things we see in others that irritate us the most are the exact traits in ourselves we’re not willing to look at. And often times the people we dislike the most are the ones most like us.
14. No one really knows what happens when we die.
15. We spend a great deal of time consumed with what we want other people to think about us, even though they aren’t thinking about us at all because they too are consumed with what they want other people to think about them.
16. One of the big keys to success is to actually fail … a lot.
17. What we do to others—either good or bad—we are actually doing to ourselves.
18. Struggling is actually better than “making it.” When people “make it” their work often goes to shit. A great example of this is countless bands who kicked ass when they were struggling, putting out some amazing albums. But once they’ve “made it” they seem to forget the secret handshake that got them into the party in the first place.
19. One of the best things we can do in life is to actually do nothing at all. Now I’m not talking about doing nothing like your alcoholic unemployed cousin who watches talk shows all day on his mom’s couch. I’m talking about just being.
20. We’re made up of almost entirely nothing.
21. We have no idea when we’re gonna die, only that’s probably gonna be between now and 40-80 years from now.
22. We try so hard to be unique just like everyone else.
23. We’re always trying to get stuff done so we can get to the things we actually wanna do.
24. We watch made-up stories about other people’s lives on a big screen that the entire house is usually centered around.
25. Most people spend much more money and attention on their television set than on their library of books.
26. Most people spend their lives doing work they do not enjoy.
27. It’s common to spend more time planning for a vacation, a wedding, or a party than planning a life.
28. Putting together the perfect life doesn’t make anyone happy. Accepting and being grateful for our imperfect life does.
29. The best way to get rid of fear is to actually do that thing we’re afraid of.
30. We spend a great deal of our lives desperately trying to be something, anything, other than ourselves.
31. The people who have the most screwed up lives often give the best advice.
32. We don’t really know how we got here.
33. We carry tiny devices in our pockets that can do more stuff than massive computers that took up entire rooms just a few decades ago.
34.. We’ve become less connected to each other than ever, even though we use Facebook, Twitter, chat, text, email and Skype pretty much every day… often through that tiny device we carry around in our pockets that can do more than those giant computers that took up the rooms.
35. We have more food options available to us than ever, but less nutrition. The healthiest people often eat like people ate when we lived in caves and dressed like Alley Oop.
36. When we resent someone, despising them and wishing all kinds of bad stuff would happen to them, we end up doing ourselves a great deal of harm while they go on living their life as if nothing ever happened.
37. When we forgive someone, it usually does nothing for the person we forgive, but the positive impact on ourselves is profound. At its root, forgiveness is about self-forgiveness.
38. Many people find they are less happy—or at least not any more happy—when they get everything they want in life, and often live in fear of losing it all—all the stuff that didn’t make ‘em any happier.
39. The more we die to who think we are, the more happy and free we become
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