I’ve Been Running From This My Entire Life

Chris,
So true! I always find the fear of an upcoming event, whether it be work or otherwise, is so much worse than the event itself. This is such a common issue for me, that I’m surprised there isn’t a term specifically for this very form of negative anticipation.
Keep on spreading the good word

Love it. So true.
Thanks.

Thanks for reminding me of my own fear of being harnessed by the system
(nurses had to hold me down after several failed attempts to find a vein while lying to me about what they were doing–I was 4 and at daycare). I have a golden opportunity to make a difference in the public school system and I am letting it chain me to their system of accountability.

So true as well ! I thought it was the doctor putting his finger in your butt!!!

This is sooooo true. I myself still deal with the imagined fear. Which is always worse than reality.
I try to remember that FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real. I try to live in the NOW because the NOW is our only true reality and the only thing we truly have power over.

Loved it – and it’s great to see you write on the blog again! Try and keep it up, even if they’re short posts like this one :).

Wow . Perfect. I am starting a new job on Monday …and was planning on worrying the entire long Fourth of July weekend ….maybe I will try to take a moment to be thankful for something instead ….thank you

I love you Chris! True! I feel ya bro!

Perfect and awesome. Was much needed. All I got to do is try it out and just do it. Thank you so much for a simple, effective and beautiful piece of your writing. Love from INDIA. 🙂

Loved it. Please keep writing. 🙂

Awesome, finally a post from you. So why are we such chickens? If “what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger ” and we always find a way; why let things bring down what we could be? I’m taking on a new attitude!

Spot on. Funny how no matter how many times this happens; the upcoming event, the scenarios of impending doom that play out in your mind, the actual event passing, often with little fanfare; that it’s still difficult to break this cycle of thinking. Good reminder to live in the now. Love your posts, keep them coming

So true…funny how we can waste so much mental energy and time worrying about some upcoming event, and when it happens it comes and goes quickly often without any negative consequences at all. In fact, we grow from the “uncomfortable” experiences, and they should be welcomed more than shunned.

Love this!!! All I do is waste time worrying about stupid crap like this and it ruins everything else. Thank you so much for this blog. I love all your writings they have all inspired me in some way or another. Keep up the great work!!

You’re right on target, Chris. The reality, of events we dread, is almost never as bad as the fears we build up. Very often the reality is harmless, only slightly negative or positive. I can think of many “bad” events in my life that turned into good. I can also think of times when the “bad” things didn’t happen and I later wished they had.

Balm for the soul, Chris.

Just finished packing up my memories from Mom’s house where I grew up and she lived for the last forty years – she’s in a nursing home from a stroke – and it was big, ugly, and horrible beforehand. But when it really happened, it was sweet, poignant – and now it’s done. I’m having a glass of wine and thinking that I kick a$$. Why did I waste so much emotional energy on the task, anyway?

you know i just recently felt that needleinthebutt sensation when my decision to leave my country to explore another part of the world was closing in. except that in the beginning i began with excitement and as time narrowed dread settled in accompanied with fear and anxiety. when the moment arrived, the needle was removed and ecstasy arrived. awesome.

Chris,
Interesting choice for your “return” post. I would have thought it would have had something to do with where you’ve been for the last 3 months and why you haven’t written anything here. I was expecting a story of how you got mixed up in a drug raid at an airport in Peru and spent a month in prison fending off AIDS infected crackheads or some shit like that..

Anyway, good to see you writing again.

I honestly love this, but tell me, how did you get over the Opioid withdrawals? I read your blogs often, so I have a feeling you’re going to tell me that you just wanted to stop so you stopped, but I’m not so sure it’s that easy. Also, I’m not assuming that’s what happened, that just seems like the kinda guy you are, which is pretty fuckin’ sweet. Either way, any advice?

Brilliant and fun and kick ass awesome. ‘Nuff said :).

Another great post. I can relate. I’ve been a personal trainer and gym owner in Austin,Texas fir a long time and I had these 2 ladoes from a dental office join up. They persuaded me to come to their shop for a checkup, etc after a couple of years of broken promises. I eventually went over and upon hearing the sound of that drill and smelling the novacain, I about jumped out of the chair. They thought it was amusing as I’m a decent sized guy (6’1 and 230) and I got a lot of ribbing for it. No apologies. I’ve been terrified of the dentist since I was 7 because of some crazy Romanian who was needle happy and had shaky hands. 38 years later, it’s the same for me. Logic, rationalization, etc be damned. I’m not getting over it. Fuck me.

OMG Chris. This has to be the most relevant post (for me) that you have made yet.

Thanks for hitting me square in the solar plexus with this one!

Preach, brother. Preach.